Jim2
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- 1st Merc 2010 E Class W212 2.1 CDI. 2nd Merc 2014 E Class W212 220 CDI
How do I reply to this lot? You all pose some very valid questions. Especially the one's asking why did I continue, ditch and get another car, just use this one now, etc, etc.
When I originally bought the car my BMW had just failed it's Mot and so I needed another. Year's ago when I worked at Philips Semiconductors in Southampton my team leader had bought the W124 and liked it so much he was convincing all the team to buy W124's. We were all engineer's however even though our salaries were quite good at the time not all of us could justify buying one at that stage. However 5 years ago when my old BMW died I was viewing three cars that day. A Jaguar, a BMW, and this Mercedes-Benz. At the time I was also in a really good project as a self employed test engineer with a damn good hourly rate and felt that after the first year of this project I deserved to treat myself to something nicer for a change. I must admit I wish I had switched to Mercedes-Benz back in the early 2000's when it was first suggested because I immediately understood when I started driving mine why driver's love them so much. And yes some parts can seem expensive, however they last longer than parts for other car's.
A series of both financial, mental health, and other issues then hit me since the last project 5 years ago and the bottom line came when I had to work as a courier for a while. It was believed that it was this plus the fact that I had not had her regularly serviced (big mistake) that eventually made the turbo plus an injector seal fail on me.
At that stage back in November 2018 I knew some of the very basics of what was under the bonnet and could change a few filter's etc, nothing like I have done with her this last 6-9 months. And as things progressed and I was buying new tools to get things done, more parts, cleaning gear etc and fully focused on getting her back on the road. My girlfriend asked me had I kept a record of how much it was costing me? Which I hadn't I admit.
And yes some people would have said "sod this" and thrown the towel in. That's the point when I see those comments I think to myself "Yes okay, however you don't know what my mind is thinking for my future plans", because now I have had a 'Taste' of owning a Mercedes-Benz car, I actually really like the taste, no Love the taste. And have decided that I Will now be sticking with Mercedes-Benz cars for as long as possible. Now ultimately that means something needs to change on my financial side I agree. My believe after working and having friends that all read self development books is that the universe will create the change required in order to supply what ever it is that you wish for. SO therefore my wish is to continue owning Mercedes-Benz cars, and therefore I wish my income and financial status to change accordingly, and it Will!!!
To the question of why didn’t I throw in the towel before this? Good question. I had been so focused and engrossed in getting her back on the road that I completely forgot about how much she was worth and how much I was spending, to the point whereby I had to continue anyway. Not to the point of spending thousands on her. Just enough to get her through the Mot. Had I known how much it was going to cost, and in actual fact I had a couple of places that gave me their verdict and rough estimates, would I have carried on? Probably not. And there was one thing that has kept me going through this whole saga, because never with any other car I have ever owned has there been anything like the support, the help, the comradeship, like I have found belonging to this forum and the Mercedes-Benz owner’s club. If it had been another car then yes it most likely would not have gone this far. And my finances probably would not have afforded a better car. However I believe the universe has higher plans for me and I certainly have higher plans for myself. I shocked my family by being the first to graduate university with the engineering degree, even after the almighty crap schooling that I had had as a child. And it was suggested by some people as I left university that I should consider going higher. My project supervisor suggested I get some industry knowledge first.
Sorry, I digress. There were so many factors around the saga and while the saga was ongoing I had other issues to deal with, even to the point where my mental health had dropped considerably and I was very close to suicide twice last year.
They say that you only go through these experiences in order to make you stronger mentally for what you have set yourself for your future to be and I truly believe that is what has happened. Because even though my family background was not good once you get a taste of being with other people and you like being around more intelligent people you kind of want more of the same.
She only has now 5 small things left to get done. Two brake system’s front, one suspension arm, one headlight leveller, and that’s it. So compared to what I have done so far and yes I am a very stubborn, determined, ambitious git, I’ve got this far so I DO need to finish now to then be able to get more better paid work, move house (which I wanted for over 10 years now) and get my whole life in order after messing up one 10 year relationship and planning on my next move (?!!). And with the fact I have pushed and challenged myself this far with learning about my car I actually DO want to learn more about Mercedes-Benz cars and learn as much as I possibly can so that in future A. I can carry on fixing this car and my future Mercedes-Benz cars, B. save on the prices that some garages charge and I will know the rough cost if there is something that I feel I am either not capable of or I am not able due to other circumstances to do.
And now I feel I have answered most questions thus far. I have been at home in Gosport so not during this week been able to work on her. Ideally I would like to work on her closer to home, currently I can’t however I am looking into somewhere I could work on her off road as I do not have any off road parking sadly.
I could go on into my life story of cars, F1 etc, however I have been summoned back to Hedge End as it is Valentines Day today (Oh well!!!, although she has let me use her driveway for this past 9 months I guess.).
So there you have it, and another update will appear shortly when she passes the Mot. :-D
That's some story, for sure!!! I always admire some one who instead of feeling sorry for himself, and that the world owe's him a living, get's up and does something about it. Well done !!!