Jim2
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People always make decisions based on "best available infomation" at the time.....and if that info turns out to be wrong, then all that can be done is to put it down to experience, and learn from it. You are not the first ( or will be the last) to make this discovery. In as much as possible, I always try to avoid the involvement of other people, but if absolutely neccessary, I keep it to a minimum. Luckily, nowadays, for working on my car ( or friends cars) I have my own space...but there were times in the past when I had to use other people's shed's etc. Luckily for me, it worked out OK. as they were friends in the best sense of the word. But I know well where you are coming from.The first and most important one would have been, don't accept the first offer of putting your car on a driveway, you never if your partner will offer you the back of their house instead!!! That was my biggest mistake of all. The second one is that I should never have taken up the offer of using another credit card knowing what I am like with them. Even if it did mean I did have new tools. The third big one was that I should have trusted what my former partner told me in that my soon to be ex-girlfriend quite often changes the truth or twists it and that in actual fact she was lying after all.
As for credit card's.......unless you have either a will of iron, or tightly controlled credit limits, they can be financial death traps. And this is true in all situations, and can happen to anyone. Try and put it behind you, and good Luck for the future